[noisycthulhu]

Originally Posted by Magdlyn

No, you're not doomed. I am similar to you, chunky... er, voluptuous, kinda nerdy, my drag is sometimes femme, sometimes butch.

Don't give up! I found my love, my gf, within 3 weeks of joining ok cupid, and in the next 3 years, a few guys along the way who also shared our kink interests (although I dated them separately). 7 months ago, my bf Ginger appeared in my life and our V is developing slowly into a triad of sorts.

I don't have it in me to give up, but I certainly have it in me to bitch and moan about it :P thank you, though, for giving your example as a light at the end of the tunnel. I will try to be more positive ^_^