Good luck on the emotional stuff-hope the work was good too!
I had to add,
most of our friends are mono-but we are out as poly.
My husband has ALwAYS been very flirtatious.
It was important when we came out as poly for us to let our mono friends know that his flirtatiousness wasn't NOW a come-on. So they could remain comfortable flirting playfully-without being concerned it meant more than that.
"Love As Thou Wilt"