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Old 08-10-2012, 04:37 PM
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Originally Posted by pmmp View Post
While I understand it may be difficult for people entering into a relationship with somebody in a domestic partnership to feel anything other than secondary, I was hoping there may be some alternative non-hierarchical language available that would be potentially less alienating to those unaccustomed to poly. Semantics, sure, but I think it could help our situations.
You can direct potential secondaries to this page for info:

Also, try these threads for ideas on terminology:

"central" = "primary"

is there a better word?

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