Originally Posted by Glitter
Thank you! I trust him completely, and he the same with me. I told him to bluntly tell me if I am crossing the line, or close to it. I don't want to hurt him, so I rely on him to tell me honestly. And so far, he's told me when something is not pleasant, so I know to not do that. I do hope one day to learn from others in person, but for now we're going slowly on our own
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