Yay! Glad to hear laying it out logically and speaking up for your wants, needs, and limits in your trio thing there has moved it forward.
Glad to hear the metas (Dh and BF) are owning their own bags and developing their relationship too.
WTG! I love happier mediums being found.
at this time = closed married polyship of 2 with DH.
Chronic patient = fuzzy brain at times. (If I make no sense in a post, just PM me and I'll happily try to clarify it later.)