Originally Posted by butterflieluv
@snowmelt, yes you are right. fear played a big factor in why the rules were in place. because everything was so new, I had a fear that I would wind up being alone, and lose both of them. My soft limits and indecisiveness just made what I didn't want to feel, become more likely to happen because of me not being realistic.
I'm glad you're able to see this in yourself. It's another step forward.