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Old 08-09-2012, 01:05 PM
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Originally Posted by GalaGirl View Post
Did you guys include her in this decision? Is the move temporary til you get your own feet back under you and move back out? How long will you be living together? Does she have alone days with him at her place? Has she been asked what would make her feel more in balance or safe emotionally? What does she fear this change will cause? That you two will get kooshier and she will be left behind?
These are the questions that spring to mind when I read the OP too.

She may be feeling left out precisely because she was... if you had an equal V before, and that dynamic changed without her being involved in the discussion, then that may have been the trigger for what is going on now.

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