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Old 08-09-2012, 02:22 AM
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Since she is not living with him, perhaps scheduling two days a week for him to stay with her will feel more "even" from her perspective. Let her have him on her own turf and she may not feel the need to assert herself so much on his and yours.
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An excellent blog post on hierarchy in polyamory:
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