so far, Maca and I've managed to figure out a few solutions for our stuff. He signed up for my blog to be emailed to him-and has actually started reading it. that alone creates a lot more undersatnding for him of what is going on in/with me.
I'm hoping it will also eventually result in us TALKING about some of it-because I still feel very much out of touch with who HE is and what HE is feeling/thinking etc.
But-one step at a time.
As for resolving the other; she's out of town for a month-and he's out of town for 2 weeks. So I don't expect that's going anywhere in the meantime.