If there is one thing I have learned being the gf and wife of many its that I need to weigh up every ones feelings and my own, decide on a course of action that considers everyone's feelings and then wade into it very slowly, looking for pitfalls all the way. I find it better to wade in more slowly than any of my loves think is necessary because something seems to come up every time.
That and that jealousy tends to be a newbie thing. Really, once people get through figuring out what they feel so threatened by. What their fear is and start working towards their own relationship goals, the only thing that lingers in poly, generally speaking, is time management and consideration of others.
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