Sigh. If other people in your life are telling you he is too controlling...
I'm going to post this for you to consider.
Take a highlighter to it and really SEE what the fav playgrounds are if more red flags for you. And check out the rest of the website in case anything else speaks to you or your situation.
I am not saying you are being abused.
I really hope you are NOT
enduring abuse. I would not wish it on anyone!
But your situation is starting to worry me even more. So let's keep it real, and I offer that just in case you have need.
Hang in there. And remember that you DO have worth, dignity, and value as a person.