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Originally Posted by WhatHappened
I guess I feel better having asked him directly how his wife felt about her very presence causing this woman pain,
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just reread your post and wanted to comment on this line.
So you actually think my very presence and existence is causing my husbands GF pain?
Besides being a married woman, I'm also a secondary. My one BF has a girlfriend and though he doesn't speak in terms of primary and secondary, I would say she technically is his primary - they see each other much more often, share much more of thei lives and socail life, and are thinking about having a baby - if that doesn't make you primary, I don't know what does
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Sometimes I'm jealous, yes. But I would never
ever say that this woman is causing me pain. It is my choice and my choice alone to be in a relationship with this man. Its up to me and me alone how I deal with everything that he brings into the relationship.