Good. That was brave. *hugs*
Print this thread or at least remember we bear witness to this conversation. So YOU can remember this part you have promised YOURSELF as your HARD LIMIT. Enough with the caca!
I'm going to give her a chance to make things right.
If she doesn't keep her end, I'll be moving this marriage to Monogamy City and if that doesn't work, I'll be taking the kids and visiting a lawyer...