Originally Posted by Sarcophagus
I'm not sure. Apparently he was unaware of me the first time, and after that, she told him about our engagement and how she has no intention of breaking it off. Obviously, they continued anyway.
It all just seems so...casually intense between them. I'm having difficulty wrapping my head around my part here.
I think if I really pushed it, I could convince her to not see him, but that would probably come to "if you visit him, I'm gone". I'd rather not go that route. It doesn't actually address anything and only serves as a sort of vindictive punishment.
Looks like you're getting something out of this relationship after all. That's good, because if you get married you'll get a chance to get to know all sorts of new men.