Thanks to everyone for your help. I will write more later, but I just wanted to say thanks. My wife made it home yesterday morning, bad weather caused her Saturday flight to be cancelled, but she is home now and we are both very happy about that.
We spent the day yesterday reconnecting, it was wonderful. I am very lucky to have her, and she is lucky to have me. I had a chance to face my fears, and while I stumbled a little, I did not fall. I love her more every day, and I know she feels the same way about me. Our relationship is strong and I don't think there is anything we can't overcome together, that is very reassuring. Thanks again!
There can be no failure to a man who has not lost his courage, his character, his self respect or his self-confidence. He is still a King - Orison Swett Marden