Ok, well it sounds like you are keeping it pretty real then.
Maybe just need a bit more clarity on expectations of the relationship and the "falling in love" thing?
Because honestly -- the first flush is brain cascade. The initial crush, then the pink fluffy lala clouds. New Relationship Energy is a high.
But that doesn't mean you cannot enjoy it for what it is, and then when the clouds clear a bit decided WITH INTENT what you want to do next, if anything.