I just have one thought. It's not really unconditional if the condition is 'everyone has to be equal.' or whatever the condition is.
Personally, I don't believe in unconditional love. Well, that's not quite right. I believe in unconditional love, but I absolutely do not believe in unconditional relationships. I will love CBF forever, and I will always forgive him anything. What I won't do is live with him until conditions are met. I had to get over the condition that someone I loved should grow into living with me, in order for me to love FBF again. I love everyone that I've ever loved, I can't help loving them. However, most of them are gone from my life, and not nearly all of them are gone because I put them out. They left. Doesn't mean I don't love them. I couldn't meet their conditions.
Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own...
Robert A. Heinlein
Me: female, bi, (formerly hinge of a vee)
with FirstBoyFriend (FBF)(moderately long-distance)
and no longer with CurrentBoyFriend (CBF)(who now lives in a house far away-with stairs I can't climb)