Originally Posted by nightrush
No decisions have been made yet. However, seeing as i am giving up my home, i made it a requirement now that i will not be second.
So you have unilaterally decided to renege on your commitment, because it doesn't suit you any more.
If I were A, I wouldn't be very happy about the fact that you didn't hold up to this commitment.
Did they agree to this new requirement at all?