Originally Posted by Anneintherain
My husband at least has always said worries about ED and sexual performance are much less for him with new people.
Really, that's interesting. My P.E was always much worse when going with a new partner. This was because of nerves, the more nervous and anxious I was, the quicker I would climax, and when going with someone for the first time I would be uptight anyway, and nervous about being nervous, so it was a vicious circle. If I combined nerves with being really turned on, it was a complete disaster.
The longer I'm in a relationship the better I am. It helps if you have a partner who is loving and patient, as Aurelie was with me, and while I'll never be up to the stud level of her lover, things are good now, and that's because I am comfortable and have confidence.