Originally Posted by CielDuMatin
It seems to me this his worries about ED and sexual performance would just be made worse with a new person. Since he wants this, does he therefore feel that being with someone new will help him with this in some way?
My husband at least has always said worries about ED and sexual performance are much less for him with new people. With an established relationship there's a history of perceived "failure" and baggage that can make it more difficult to perform, that pressure isn't there with somebody new.