It was both the quantity and the context of the texts. I won't go into details, but they have cowgirl written all over them. Newtoday, you hit the nail on the head, he is definitely struggling. We have hab many conversations about both of our comfort levels and he seemed to develop amnesia the minute he got out the door. I have a huge issue with things moving fast. He knows that. I a little bummed out but on the positive side, I know what areas need more work.
Thank you everyone for your input, I am really happy to have found this site, it's the best!