Originally Posted by ultradeluxe
I'm really not okay with it (his seeing this girl) - not at this stage of things. He's failing to see that we need time to get on more solid ground.
Am I being selfish about it?
No! You are not being Selfish at all. You are being honest with your feelings and what you want. Don't put your needs aside for somebody else's. Only you can make yourself #1, not Primary! He is not putting your needs first, why should you? Only you are and will always been #1 to yourself!