Originally Posted by lionessjlf
My husband has recently come around to being poly. After much discussion and pure honesty I must say it went pretty smooth. He still has some issues/boundaries to sort out, but so far so good. I am delightfully basking in the glow of how well our relationship has grown thus far and am looking forward to more.
How did he "come around" to being poly?
I was reading your initial threads and they stated he was clearly very Mono.
Perhaps the drinking was his way of coping with a very uncomfortable situation. And the amount of texting is him getting caught up in some extra attention.
Either way, I don't believe that this is going as smoothly for him as you think it is.