Quantity of texts is nothing. I text like crazy. My wife gets annoyed because I'm tied to my phone all the time, but it's not because I'm talking to another girl or anything. It's because I'm on my phone. NRE develops at different paces for different people.
The drinking is definitely a problem. The other stuff I feel is natural. But that's me. Everyone is different.
"Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is the regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable." - Sydney Smith
Kyle: 27 year old male
Katie (rymmare): 25 year old female
Kids: girl: 5 years old, boy: 3 years old