my problem is that once someone knows i'm poly they just start thinking of me as a swinger. no dissin' the swig dancers out there but it's not my cup of booze. i'm too lazy to be a swinger. so when they think of it they only want to hear about the sex part. i don't even care about sex that much. yes i like it but i want my good company over anything else. i want my husband to have a friend in my mate and i should find a friend in his.
and then.. men are just jerks sometimes after a night of beer and bars. he sounds like a friend that needs to move away... far far away.