They had a great time on thier date. I however saw red flags all over the place. My husband totally disregarded the only boundary I gave him. I asked him not to get drunk. He did. We had a discussion about it and he immediately got defensive. I understand this was the first time fot him, but he is clearly not ready.
Then there is the issue of the massive amounts of text messages. Literally 50, in one day I feel she is moving fast. Way too fast for my comfort level which he was fully aware of. NRE after one date of dinner and drinks? There is clearly a big RED FLAG. We have decided to do some more work on our relationship before trying again. I am taking full responsibility for this as I feel I may have pushed him. Sigh, what a mess.