This is when it gets awkward. I was grabbed in death-grip type hold and informed that I'm:
'In a poly relationship and so you HAVE to kiss me'.
That's where I would go -- knee to the groin.
Some men seem to think they are ENTITLED to a woman's body. And that knowing she is polyamorous = she's some candy bar just anyone can have a bite from any time they want.
It's polyamory, not polyfuckery.
You have my sympathies. Been there before, and brought person to account swift and fierce.
That's crap is just fresh.
And that's why that button exists -- "bi, poly and I STILL won't sleep with you!"