This is the get to know you time.
It is perfectly fine time to go "So... since this is the get to know you time... where do you see this all going over the next 6 mos? Not making life changing plans but jsut to see what is, is not on the table here? Before we get in too much deeper? "
I like KISS: Keep it simple, silly.
Makes my life easier.
at this time = closed married polyship of 2 with DH.
Chronic patient = fuzzy brain at times. (If I make no sense in a post, just PM me and I'll happily try to clarify it later.)