Originally Posted by donalditsronald
Secondly, your father really doesn't (shouldn't) have any say about who you're dating. But in many poly relationships, there are rules about who is ok to date and who isn't. It's not weird if thread starter feels that he should find out about those rules before deciding if it's even worth a go.
True, but it seems to me the rules can be found out from either partner or both at once, so it doesn't require asking the partner you're not interested in first.
Openminds, any chance of an update on this?