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Old 08-02-2012, 11:46 PM
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Originally Posted by BaggagePatrol View Post
Can someone really clearly define cowboys/cowgirls for me?
Just picture the cowboy or cowgirl on a horse, riding in the midst of a herd of cattle, trying to rope one of them and separate it from the herd to bring back to their ranch. That's what cowboys/girls do, they get in the middle of a poly tangle and glom onto the one they want to claim as their own. Instead of rope, they use sex and convincing arguments, or driving a psychological wedge between an established couple, to try and make that person want only them and leave the tangle behind.
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