How common is it for guys in Poly to be their girls primary in everyway but one?
When it comes to looking after finances, or our child, or emotional support, time spent together, love, friendship and physical affection etc etc, I am my girls primary!
The only part of her life where I'm not, is when it comes to satisfying her sexual needs, in this area I'm secondary to my metamour.
I was wondering how common this is, and also how other guys cope with this situation.
The same question applies to the ladies.