It's been so long since I replied, my dynamic hasn't changed much. But, maybe my thoughts have?
I don't care one way or the other if they are single or married-per se.
I'm going to decide on an individual basis based upon how well our lives mesh.
But, I can say, that after surviving several different nightmare attempts at dating other women on my husbands part, I'm guarded in terms of people who are new to poly. The drama is exhausting.
IF I WERE SINGLE-I think I'd choose not to engage myself with married couples.
I definitely wouldn't engage myself with people who have children-if I didn't have children.
Again, these people may be great, but the drama.. exhausts me.
The more people who are responsible to other people involved, the more complicated the planning. And
the more likely that SOMEONE in the group is going to react negatively to someone else.
"Love As Thou Wilt"