You are girlfriend is not poly your girlfriend is a cheater who pulled the poly card to try to have her cake and eat it too when caught.
I believe is fidelity/loyalty. I always keep my promises to both my boyfriend and husband. IE I am only seeing both of them. No others. Both men are ok with each other but not with me seeing anyone else. Both are mono. I have NEVER EVER stepped out behind anyone's back.
My husband is the one who pointed out I was poly... and gave me my freedom to be happy but with only one other partner. My boyfriend came into a relationship knowing I had a husband. Decided he wanted me in his life and we went from there. I have separate but equal relationships with both men.
Last edited by Dagferi; 07-31-2012 at 03:43 PM.