Thank you for that quote about aftercare. I really liked that. One of the sweetest moments I ever had was the first woman I ever had sex with, she called me the morning after. She knew it was my first time (it was the primary reason she wanted me), but she knew I would have issues at home. I was living with parents, and they had specifically asked me to not be out late that night, and I was; also, it was raining. We were under no illusions that we were forming a relationship. But she called, and said she was just checking on me, and wanted to be sure I was okay.
I wish more people thought like that, and took care to be kind in that way. It would make the whole world better.
Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own...
Robert A. Heinlein
Me: female, bi, (formerly hinge of a vee)
with FirstBoyFriend (FBF)(moderately long-distance)
and no longer with CurrentBoyFriend (CBF)(who now lives in a house far away-with stairs I can't climb)