Op you seem to be looking for a mythical creature to fit right into your relationship with you and your husband. That is going to be difficult if there is even such a person.
It is intimindating to think about developing a relationship with a single person without throwing a second persons needs, wants, desires into it. She may have been just looking to develop something with YOU first. Perhaps she decided she did not want a couple.
Last edited by Dagferi; 07-31-2012 at 03:45 AM.