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Old 07-31-2012, 03:13 AM
pocketpoly86 pocketpoly86 is offline
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Boogers - I was kinda hoping you'd say I am expecting too much, or worry over nothing, or something similar...because then I could work on me. I can't change others. I do think he'd like to make me happy...he just struggles with how to do it. He frquesntly tries really hard to do something only to find out it sends the opposite message he intends and then he feels frustrated and angry. I'm just at a loss on how to communicate my needs to him because what I think is obvious, he believes is absurd. (E.g. I think he believes the party is no big deal at all and it isn't even my business because I wasn't home and it didn't involve me so I shouldn't spin my wheels and overthink it...whereas I feel violated and hurt - he simply does not understand. He believes I'm illogical).
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