Originally Posted by thenewgirl79
i dont understand...whats the difference between finding a real person and a unicorn? unicorns are real people
By looking for a unicorn you're limiting your options severely. You may have more luck if you look for a person you click with and then work out how they fit into your life rather than identifying a unicorn shaped hole in your relationship model and insisting that anyone you meet has to fit it exactly.
Edit: Also—back on the nude photos issue—think of how you'd advise your hypothetical 16 year-old niece if she mentioned she was going to start sexting her new boyfriend.