I feel the same way... I am of normal weight and a very small frame, so my numbers will not be related to any of yours, thus I won't post them.
But - During the last few months of my marriage and post divorce I gained weight. This was a result of drinking alot, eating, etc. for the reasons you all posted.
After I started my new life with new friends in a new town - It literally melted off! As I said before - I am a small frame, but on this small frane, I lost 20lbs in the past year.
Totally ridiculous... I think I just got happier, and ta dah!