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Old 07-29-2012, 07:32 PM
sparklepop sparklepop is offline
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Join Date: Jun 2012
Posts: 461

Forgot to add -- medibate the demons!

Meditate + masturbate = medibate
Hahaha.... I nearly dropped my cigarette... erm, I mean my organic muesli bar... laughing at this.

GG has a point though. I save all my best porn for when GF has date night Though, not because I ever thought of it helping my stress, but because I do love porn.

Ohhh... you could start playing Utherverse. I found that through porn one day. Google it Four days will pass in four hours. You'll come out of it realising you haven't eaten... but, meh, small price to pay.

GG also has a great point about aftercare. One of our guidelines is to understand that all partners can feel a bit stressed/guilty/iffy/misc. bad feeling after sleeping with someone else. Not just the person that's at home. So it's really wonderful when the love can be shared upon partner returning home. I personally feel so much love for my GF when I come home from a date... for me, it strengthens that love, because I am free. I haven't had a date yet, where I couldn't wait to get home to my girlfriend and give her lots of cuddles.

I think you will do great!

me: open poly (31, female)

involved with:
GF: (41, female) my long-distance, long-term partner
Earth: (35, female) newly dating

Hubby: (38, male) GF's husband
Garcon: (28, male) GF's boyfriend/submissive

“Peace comes from within. Do not seek it without." ~ Buddha
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