Thanks so much!!!
I so much enjoyed reading your story, you write so well. Your "rules" are excellent, if only rules worked completely. In my "failed attempts" at poly, D/s each time I came away feeling saddened by how little people actually know about themselves or possibly how so many feel the need to misrepresent who they are in order to have a stab at love, which of course is terminally flawed logic. Again, thanks for sharing, don't give up looking, these are all learning experiences and one day it will all come together for you!