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Old 07-28-2012, 02:53 PM
snowmelt snowmelt is offline
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The lesson you're learning is to not give yourself away to others like you've been doing. Stay with them if you need to (if you really don't have anywhere else to go), but begin the work of emotionally moving on while you're staying with them. Build a solid foundation for yourself while staying with them - a foundation you can use to live on your own. I will caution you about something. When you do what I suggest, he may be more attracted to your new independence and try to charm you into coming back. Don't do it. Assume nothing has changed with them. When you're financially and logistically ready to be on your own, do it. Don't look back, or go back. Live your life.
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