Originally Posted by Mintcar
What should I do? Stick it out or peace out? Bail or not bail? Or as Mick Jones of The Clash so eloquently put it, should I stay or should I go?
I would let them go and move on with your life. I don't know whether he is manipulating you, or he just sincerely doesn't know what he wants. The answer to that question really doesn't matter, because it doesn't sound like they are offering you anything meaningful, sincere or supportive. My guess is they were trying to fix their own unhappy marriage by adding a third person to it. If that's true, they probably discovered adding a third person aggravated their problems, instead of solving them. Blaming you for their problems is the easiest way for them to try to explain to themselves why they are unhappy. Either way, their problems are not your problem. Take a deep breath. Decide what you want to change in your own life for your own happiness, and go for it.