I think the thing that I need to improve upon is that I start getting very frustrated when he responds to my questions in the ways that I've explained. I then come off as the irrational one, because I get so worked up.
Mind games. That's speakoutloud tactics
section 1, 2, and 10.
Gaslighting fun. (NOT!)
Hmmph. I am not impressed.
(PS: Please tell me to tone it down and back off if I lose my grip on this one. The "avoidy nambypamby" issue is a VERY triggering one to me. *frown* )