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Old 07-27-2012, 07:55 PM
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"Should I back away from the idea and hide how I feel for her and my friend?"
No, but, have a care about gushing too much about your friend. That kind of thing can be traumatic for a monogamous partner. Put the lion's share of your effort into reassuring your girlfriend that you are still devoted to her, and that you aren't going anywhere. Try to emphathize with her. This is a difficult change for her to go through.

"I don't want to loose my girlfriend."
This is the main thing to be stressing to her at this time. You are ready for the idea of polyamory, but she may need some time to catch up.
Love means never having to say, "Put down that meat cleaver!"
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