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Old 07-27-2012, 04:50 PM
RagingBibliophile RagingBibliophile is offline
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coming from the wife of a person similar to you, honesty is the most. important. thing. ever. I cannot stress this enough. My husband chose to lie to me while being in another relationship to "protect me", and it has been... bad. Give your wife honesty. sit down with her and say "Hey, this is how I feel. I still love you. I don't want to lose you over it, but I didn't want to lie to you." See what she has to say. That's at the point my husband and I are trying to get to, and lying made it a billion times worse. go from there. I'm not saying it will be easy at all, but at least it will be out there, and she'll thank you for respecting her enough to talk to her about it. Good luck.
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