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Old 07-27-2012, 03:11 PM
snowmelt snowmelt is offline
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Everyone who has replied to this thread so far has given you solid information. Run with it.

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What I'm so frustrated by, is the way he changed and how swiftly. These issues have come on in the last two years. Before that, there was no hint of this.
You are married to the person he is now. Not the person he used to be.



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Now, I'm not saying "Drugs did it!" because thats far from the truth.
You're kidding me, right? Drugs have nothing to do with it? Wake up girl!

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I try to make the best decision for the family as a whole, because to me, that is what is most important.
You give your family the person you are. If you're happy and strong, you give happiness and strength to your family. If your miserable... you give misery. Which one do you think is best? Your first job is to do FOR YOU what you need to do FOR YOU, even if that means ending it with him. This will get you a lot closer to being able to give your kids your happiness and strength, instead of your misery.

Staying with someone who uses drugs tells your kids its ok to use drugs. Is that what you want to teach them? My personal opinion about alcoholics and druggies is they care about no one.

Last edited by snowmelt; 07-27-2012 at 03:18 PM.
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