Originally Posted by kdt26417
Hello Raging B,
Welcome to our forum.
I think you can come out of this okay ... You just have to establish with your husband that there will be no more secrets, and no more lies. You may need to have several marathon talks and discussions before being ready to move on to the next step.
You also have to figure out what works for you, and what you can live with. What are your goals? What are your husband's goals? Are they compatible?
Hopefully Polyamory.com can be of some help to you as you sort through these difficult questions.
That's why I've come here, because whenever I ask questions, he gives me the run around, or spouts out this... pseudo spiritual stuff that leaves me opened mouth. Which makes me think I'm not asking the right questions, and he's not quite getting the point of being a true poly. Thank you all for the warm welcomes, it really is nice to be open and have help.