That sounds backwards to me.
Because falling in love with people won't kill me dead. Casual sex with the wrong people might.
I would MUCH rather hear DH fell in love with someone and told me about it. Then I could go "Oh, that's nice, dear" and have opportunity to share in his joys give support, nurture, compersion. He's got my green light on that since people cannot help how they feel when they feel it. I get that. So love all you want. Just give me the heads up if it's gonna go loverly so I have time to prepare that is is changing lanes.
I would NOT appreciate his sharing his body without my go ahead because that directly impacts my OWN body. I am not comfortable with that.
I'm just not wired for swing style. Hard swing OR soft swing. I find it much easier to share hearts.
Last edited by GalaGirl; 07-26-2012 at 06:50 PM.