Originally Posted by lovefromgirl
...uh, what about her getting hurt? I'm seeing a lot of "us, us, us" and not a ton of compassion for the woman whose husband is cheating on her. Because that's what it is, when they don't give permission. Cheating. Pretty nasty.
Yes, I totally agree. Cheating is nasty. I've been there with my husband and it wasn't pretty. When I said that she can't ruin us, I meant us as in my husband and I.
Because I was there, I do have compassion for his wife. I seriously do not want anyone to get hurt. And even though I know there are 2 sides to every story, I do believe what he is telling me. He has a very public job, one that would make it seem that he has the perfect family. I don't "know" his wife, but I know the type of person she is from what he is telling me.
I understand your concerns, I really do. I wish the circumstances were different. However, they're not. I also understand that you don't know me from Adam, either. But I promise you, there is more to this story than him just cheating.