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Old 07-25-2012, 11:46 PM
Rassilon Rassilon is offline
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Well, I have been reading through the forum and reading some of various blogs and relationship sites.

To be completely honest with myself I think I am dealing with two issues or mistakes on my part.

1 - I fear losing her. From everything she has said this fear is irrational. I suspect it is deeply seated in concerns I don't deserve to be happy. I will make this the major focus of my one on one counseling coming up as I suspect it is probably the source of my depression also.

2 - I try too hard to make her happy instead of remembering to address my own needs and happiness in conjunction with hers.

I am certain there are other issues involved as well. If anyone has resources or advice on these two please chime in.

I will continue my search for enlightenment and happiness.
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